Are you a boy or a girl?


This is a terribly sad and tragic thing. My heart goes out to everyone who is lost in all this confusion….

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“Are you a boy or a girl?” my mom whispers into the phone, afraid her roommate might hear her question.

“A girl,” I say.

“You ARE?” she asks, as if she can’t believe it, as if it’s deeply upsetting for her.

“Yes.”

“How long have you been a girl?”

“I’ve always been a girl, Mom.”

“I never knew all this time that you were a girl,” she says, a note of shock in her voice. “Does it bother you to be a girl?”

“No, Mom.”

“Does everyone else in the family know you’re a girl?”

“Yes.”

“No one ever told me.”

I don’t know what to say to that.

“Do you look like a girl?” she asks.

“I guess so.”

“Do you have long hair?”

“No, I have short hair.”

“Do you dress like a girl?”

“Umm … yes.”

“Do you get your period and that kind of stuff?”

“Yes.”

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About Daniel Mason

I write from the historic protestant worldview, that is, Reformed, specifically the conservatism within that tradition. That noble line extends from Edmund Burke to F.J. Stahl, Groen van Prinsterer to Abraham Kuyper, Herman Bavinck to H.R. Rookmaaker. View all posts by Daniel Mason

3 responses to “Are you a boy or a girl?

  • lilyofthevalley2014

    When I was about 9 years old, a group of younger boys asked me if I was a boy or girl. I thought they were stupid and I couldn’t think why me wearing baggy shorts and T-shirt, a backwards baseball hat, and playing with boys would then have people confused about my gender. It seems I was the stupid, ill informed one. Thanks for posting this! Interesting to think about.

  • littlebtomato

    Gender confusion is heartbreaking; especially when children are swept away into this torment. God doesn’t mistakenly create us into the wrong body.

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